Free Test · 10 Questions
Top or Bottom Test
Find out whether you're a top, a bottom, or a switch — based on how you like to give and receive.
1. I prefer to be the one doing the action in a scene.
2. I most enjoy receiving sensation rather than giving it.
3. I like being the one who ties, spanks, or leads physically.
4. Being on the receiving end is what excites me most.
5. I'd rather direct the physical side of play.
6. I enjoy surrendering to what a partner does to me.
7. Taking the active role feels most natural to me.
8. I love the vulnerability of being acted upon.
9. I get satisfaction from delivering an experience.
10. I prefer to let go and simply feel.
Top or bottom: FAQs
What's the difference between top/bottom and dominant/submissive?
Top and bottom describe who performs the action (the top does, the bottom receives), while dominant and submissive describe who holds authority. You can be a dominant bottom or a submissive top — the axes are separate.
What does it mean to be a switch here?
A switch enjoys both topping and bottoming depending on the partner and mood, rather than strongly preferring one role.